Writing + Doodles
The Practice of Yutori
I recently learned the Japanese word yutori. It means spaciousness or having room to breathe.
A Case For Boredom
Humans hate being bored. It feels like wasted time. When a gap appears in our day, the natural reflex is to reach for our phones.
My Word of the Year 2026
Every year, I choose a word to act as a compass for my decisions and actions. For 2026, that word is strength.
My Top 12 Doodles of 2025
As 2025 comes to a close, I have spent some time looking back on the year through my doodles to select some of my favourites.
Why You Need a Someday Maybe List
I was working with a coaching client recently who was struggling with the size of their to-do list. They were overwhelmed and couldn’t see a way to get to the bottom of it.
Why My Phone and I Sleep Separately
I have tried to break up with my phone more than once. But every time I do, we somehow drift back together.
Do You Have a Project Queue?
Too many active projects drain your energy and make you less productive.
Responsiveness is Not a Proxy for Care
"In today’s culture, responsiveness is a proxy for care."
Can We Talk About Second-Screening?
Do you ever find yourself watching a big screen while scrolling on a little one?
Is Your Regret a Form of Perfectionism?
I am starting to see regret as a form of perfectionism. Regret assumes that a perfect decision was waiting to be made, and that we failed to make it.
Can’t Get Back to Sleep? Try Cognitive Shuffling
I’ve been struggling with sleep recently; not getting off to sleep, but waking up in the night and lying awake for far too long.
The Difference Between a To-Do List and a Today List
For many people, their to-do list is a source of stress. Often, that’s because it’s seen as something to finish (I mean, completely finish: so it's empty).
If Feedback is a Gift, How Should You Respond?
Has anyone ever told you that "feedback is a gift"?
Name Your Monsters to Tame Them
"A monster hiding in the dark will never be as scary once you’ve turned on the light."
The Cost of Saying Yes
We often think about boundaries in terms of what to say no to. But there’s another way to frame it.
The Power of Doing Things Daily-ish
If you want to start a new healthy habit, how often should you commit to doing it? How about daily-ish?