Writing + Doodles
The Cost of Saying Yes
We often think about boundaries in terms of what to say no to. But there’s another way to frame it.
The Power of Doing Things Daily-ish
If you want to start a new healthy habit, how often should you commit to doing it? How about daily-ish?
Control the Controllables
As you know, I like learning about and sharing different productivity and wellbeing strategies, but I never assume they’ll work for everyone.
Feedback: Praise in Public, Everything Else in Private
Recently, I delivered a course for leaders and managers on having better feedback conversations.
Is Your To-Do List Actually a Wish List?
We often underestimate how long things take and overestimate how much we can get done in one day.
Rest is an Act of Kindness to Others
Rest is often seen as something we take for ourselves. But have you ever noticed the effect it has on others?
One Way to Manage Your “To Read” Pile
I’ve been thinking about Oliver Burkeman’s advice for avoiding information overload: treat your "to read" pile like a river rather than a bucket.
When to Say “No”
Most of us wait until we’re overwhelmed at work before we say no.
By then, it’s too late.
Are You Suffering Twice?
In Stoicism, "suffering twice" refers to the suffering we cause ourselves by worrying about things that might never happen.
The Imposter Syndrome Paradox
“Imposter syndrome is a paradox: others believe in you, you don’t believe in yourself, yet you believe yourself instead of them.” — Adam Grant.
Are Your Technology Choices Additive or Extractive?
I came across some new (to me) terminology in an article from Cal Newport’s blog that I think is useful: additive and extractive technology.
Radical Acceptance
Radical Acceptance, in its simplest form, can be expressed as follows: Pain + Resistance = Suffering.
You Don’t Have to Finish Everything
Somewhere along the way, many of us picked up the idea that we should finish what we start. It's what adults do. But…
There’s No Such Thing As Time Management
There’s no such thing as time management.
Which is awkward, because I write about time management a lot.
Free Time and Availability Are Not the Same Thing
Just because there’s a gap in your calendar doesn’t mean it’s up for grabs.
Outsource Your Working Memory
Your working (short-term) memory has a limited capacity—research suggests it can hold between 3 and 8 items. Unsurprisingly, when we try to cram in too much (tasks, reminders, ideas, information), we feel overwhelmed.
Deliberate Rest
If you want to become an expert at something, hard work matters. Research suggests that it takes around 10,000 hours of deliberate practice to become an expert in a particular field. We tend to focus on that part: the work. But there’s another essential piece we often overlook: deliberate rest.